A person goes to work for a snake farm. The person is upset because instead of working around snakes, they have to handle snakes. The person states "I hate snakes & I'm scared of them" why is this happening to me?
Most clients & counselors are comfortable with "learning skills to help with the situation". Good counselors will work on the "Fear" & where it stems from. Great counselors will challenge the client to understand "why" they chose this situation & circumstances.
Strive to be great.
Go deep. Get to the roots. We do what we do for a reason. Find the reason & just maybe you will find the real solution.